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30 days of self-love: tiny perfect things

January 25, 2023

Children are wise. I think that’s one reason why it’s so hard (for me, at least) to write a children’s book. You have an audience known for a short attention span, and a keen sense of when a story is worth listening to.

That’s why I love a really well-written children’s book. It distills a story to its most compelling elements.

I was given the book pictured above as a gift, and I like to keep it displayed to remind me how the most foundational of spiritual themes can be found in a children’s story: awe, presence, excitement, appreciation of the mundane, finding beauty in the ordinary. I pick it up and read it sometimes for inspiration before a walk, or when I need a good reminder of how I am always surrounded by some magic to noticed.

In Tiny, Perfect Things, the little girl and her grandfather go for a walk around their neighborhood. Every step reveals another wonder to be discovered: a leaf, a spiderweb, a crow, a red bottle cap, a cat.

She says,

“The world is full of wonders,

no matter where we go.

Can we go again tomorrow?

I wonder what we’ll see.”

The Dalai Lama says,

“Be kind whenever possible.

It’s always possible.”

I can’t be sure, but I think he might say the same about the world.

An excitement for your life, rooted in a joy of what’s around you, whenever possible.

It’s always possible.

How many tiny, perfect things can you find?

4 Comments leave one →
  1. Grace's avatar
    gtabeek permalink
    January 25, 2023 3:51 pm

    I love this and it’s a great reminder of how the simple things that surround us can create a more peaceful enviornment for yourself.

    • Melissa Fitzgerald's avatar
      Melissa Fitzgerald permalink*
      January 26, 2023 5:00 am

      I agree. Such a good reminder of the riches we have around us. Reminds me of what Rainer Marie Rilke wrote, …”f your daily life seems poor, do not blame it; blame yourself, tell yourself that you are not poet enough to call forth its riches…”

  2. nance26's avatar
    nance26 permalink
    January 25, 2023 3:55 pm

    Meliss,

    Thanks for sharing this. It is a great reminder… and simple too!

    Great writing.

    Love, Aunt Nancy

    • Melissa Fitzgerald's avatar
      Melissa Fitzgerald permalink*
      January 26, 2023 5:01 am

      Thanks for reading. Happy walking 🙂

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